H and one of her friends were having a water fight one evening, for ages and ages.. It turned out it was a highly structured game with rules, they decided rules would be a “good idea”.

• No two cans
• No throwing if opponent paused
• Be fair
• Only throw at players
• Be gentle
• No throwing cans
• Only two weapons

They even devised a punishment if they didn’t follow the rules….

They liked the punishment.. which happened more than once, perhaps on purpose?

From this I deduce that H and her friend know how to negotiate, they have seen flaws in their game and worked out how to solve them, they thought about others safety and importantly how to make sure it’s a fair fight.